Karmic Bitch-slap Tarot Spread


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Guest post by Zorian Cross

This spread was created about a couple of years ago. I was dumped by a guy I was having a long distant relationship with. He had issues regarding commitment and claimed I was suffocating him and he needed his space (he was two continents apart from me, how much space did he need?). So in a fiery fit of rage, I turned to my cards and began organically pulling cards one after another, asking questions randomly. While doing so, some of the cards revealed such cheeky yet witty answers to those questions that I couldn’t help but laugh out loud. So hard I laughed, I could feel the tears of joy falling down my cheeks.

So then I thought, there are so many tarot spreads that are all about looking for love, understanding relationships, and discovering Karmic roots of relationships. But what about when a relationship breaks? What about when you were dumped outta the blue for no reason what so ever and are so filled with anger that you just wanna bitch-slap someone? What about when someone has been so unfair to you and treated you so horribly, that all the healing and ‘bigger-person’ spreads just seem too vague and unhelpful.

Sometimes You Gotta Get it Off Your Chest!

Sometimes the best way to get deal with a messy break up of any kind is to be with your friends and just vent and bitch about the jerk/bitch that broke your heart. It may not be the ‘light’ thing to do, but God(dess) it feels oh so good to get all that angst outta your chest. I dunno about you, but I consider Tarot to be one of my closest friends ever! Hell, I’ve been reading Tarot since about 15 years, that’s longer than most friendships even last! So why not let Tarot be that best friend one can vent to when your heart has been broken. After all, we ask all sorts of questions from the Tarot (from when we’ll find true love to our spiritual mission in life), so why not let it be a sounding board for all our angst and venting, but allow it to offer us valuable insight into our situation, allowing us to laugh and heal at the same time.

And with that, I present the Karmic Bitch-slap Tarot Spread

  1. Why was I stupid enough to fall for the biatch/jerk in the first place?
  2. What was I thinking?
  3. What was the actual reason the biatch/jerk did what they did?
  4. What were their true feelings for me throughout the period of the relationship?
  5. How do I deal with this?
  6. What are the Karmic Lessons I need to learn from all this?
  7. What is the Karmic Bitch-slap they shall receive?
  8. Advise for me to heal myself?
  9. What the future holds for my heart?
  10. Empowering Message or Mantra I should live by!

And the reading I did that day?

This is about a guy I dated briefly during the end of 2008, and we broke off just a week before Valentines Day in 2009 (What a Tool right? Hence His name in the reading is Mr.T – short for Mr. Tool)

Card One

JusticeWhy was I stupid enough to fall for the biatch/jerk in the first place?

Justice

At first I didn’t understand this card appearing here, but then I realized that Justice is associated with Libra, which is also my rising sign, which unfortunately leads me to falling in love with love, which like Rodgers and Hart wrote, is clearly falling for make-believe. Doing so lead me to believe I needed a partner to make me feel whole and complete from within, and I guess that lead me to be borderline desperate for someone special in my life. And well, when one is desperate for anything, they sometimes make rash and silly decisions that they later on regret. Such as dating Mr.T.

Card Two

What was I thinking?

6 of Wands

*Sigh*.. I thought he was my knight in shining armour. My Prince charming who’d ride into town and sweep me off my feet and take me far far away and make me his Princess. It was only afterwards did I realize that ‘Princes’ are raised to be charming, but never really sincere.

Card Three

What was the actual reason the biatch/jerk did what they did?

Judgement

When I saw the card I burst out into laughter. Of course he felt ‘judged’ – the guy was a total paranoid closet case who was completely uncomfortable with his sexuality. In India, being gay is rather hard, as not only is it frowned upon, but up until a few months ago, it was considered ‘illegal’ and people caught ‘being gay’ would be imprisoned for up to 5-10 years or so. Not to mention all the harassment that’s inflicted upon gay men and their families and loved ones. I had the good fortune to be in a family that loved and accepted me when I came out to them, and hence wore my sexuality like the fabulous rainbow it is. I was an out and proud gay man, while he was a major closet case and most of the time, denied he was truly gay. He claimed to be Bi (the kind of ‘Bi’ guys who have never ever been with a woman, but still hold onto the label of being Bi because they feel like Hannah Montanna – “You get the best of both worlds”). He was so scared of being ‘judged’ that he wouldn’t even hold my hand while we walked down the street, let alone hug (hug, not even kiss) me if in public. Issues!

Card Four

What were their true feelings for me throughout the period of the relationship?

7 of Wands

Well, the first thing that ‘flashed’ in my mind was that he was only in it for the sex. Not that I wanna brag or anything, but I have been doing Yoga for over 2 years now, so that kinda gives me the advantage to ‘experiment’ a whole lot. And well, it was a very torrid sexual affair we had. However, looking at the card more closely, it almost seems like throughout the relationship, he kept on ‘fighting’ me off every time I asked him where our r/s was heading. He would send me mixed messages, claiming that he didn’t want to ruin our ‘special bond’ by giving it a ‘definition’. He wanted to be known as a ‘special someone’ rather than my boyfriend (WTF is that all about?)

Card Five

How do I deal with this?

Ace of Swords

Well, like my wonderful friend Shashank told me, I need to take charge of the situation and not let him control me in any which way. You see, after we had broken up, Mr.T would keep calling me, trying to get me back in the sack, without any strings attached. Being the Capricorn that I am, I channelled my inner Ice-Queen-Frosty-Bitch persona (that’s as icy as the blades of a sword), and castrated him verbally as I told him what bodily waste he could eat and die :D. Furthermore, I refused to let myself feel emotionally low about the whole situation. Come to think of it, even though he did just use me for sex, at least I can live with the ego boost that I’m fantastic in bed! How do I know this? 8 months later he still calls… I never answer.

Card Six

HierophantWhat are the Karmic Lessons I need to learn from all this?

Hierophant

Hierophant being my Soul Card, to me this shows that I need to have more faith in myself, as well as realize that the most important relationship that I need in my life is the relationship I have with my self on a body, mind, and spirit level. After all, the (desperate) need to have someone special in my life led me to make some of the biggest mistakes relationship-wise. Since this relationship ended, I began taking better care of myself. From working out more often, to following a healthy diet, to even meditating and spending more time connecting to my spiritual side, rather than waiting desperately for Prince Charming to come into my life.

Card Seven

What is the Karmic Bitch-slap they shall receive?

King of Pentacles

Lol… well, you see, just the other day, I met up with a friend of mine for coffee, and I saw Mr.T. He was looking sad, lonely, and dejected with life. He saw me and walked up, and I was my usual pleasant yet distant self with him. Afterwards he sent me a text claiming how lovely I looked, and how much he missed the time we spent together. I realized that during our time together, he was so obsessed with his career that he always put that ahead of everything else in his life, including his own family. So in a way, his Karmic Bitch-slap is to be one of those guys who achieve a whole lot in life on a material level, but clearly end up being alone and dejected. (Serves him right.. tee hee)

Card Eight

Advice for me to heal myself?

5 of Wands

Well, to put it simply, this card was clearly telling me that I shouldn’t have to beat myself up because of this failed relationship. You see, Mr.T always made me feel guilty, as though everything was my fault (which I later learned is standard practice for all manipulators). And initially when the relationship failed, I blamed myself and beat myself a whole lot about it. Till my best friend (Shashank) made me realize that at the end of the day, he was the one who behaved like a tool, and he was the one who was emotionally cold and distant towards me. My only fault was that I loved him (or at least loved the notion of him). And thus with that I began treating myself better and moved on.

Card Nine

ChariotWhat the future holds for my heart?

Chariot

Well, this is quite lovely. Someone who truly loves me would come and sweep me off my feet and we’ll live happily ever after (okay, way too much wishful thinking). However, after closer examination of the card, I realized that now rather than being so quick to jump into a relationship, I’ll be careful before giving my heart away. Chariot being related to the sign of Cancer (the sign that never makes the first move and always thinks numerous chess board like strategies before getting involved deeper), I now see these qualities in me. I learned through subtle ways how to ‘test’ the men who approach me romantically, and be able to decipher how ‘noble’ their intentions are before giving myself away to them.

Card Ten

Cups-07 70pc cropEmpowering Message or Mantra I should live by!

7 of Cups

This fits me well, because after this entire debacle, I realized that life is too short, and I’m way too young and fabulous to just stay with one person who is being a jerk to me. There are plenty of fish (or cups) in the sea, and I can sample all the various flavours at my ease. Rather than search for my Prince, I can let him search for me, while I have fun and enjoy myself. Incidentally, a couple of months after Mr.T and I split. I had a romantic fling with two yummy French boys, a cute Italian guy, and a very very yummy Swede! I earlier on never allowed myself to have ‘fun’, but now, I live each day to the fullest, and I enjoy myself without any feelings of ‘guilt’ coming in the way ๐Ÿ˜€

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40 thoughts on “Karmic Bitch-slap Tarot Spread”

  1. I love this spread! And of course I’m totally taken with Zorian – he’s a dream to work with and a star in the making.

    If you have any questions about the Karmic Bitch-slap Tarot Spread, then don’t hold back – fire away!! We’d love to hear from you ๐Ÿ™‚

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  2. Well, now, here’s a totally useful tarot spread for all those people who come to me saying “WTF???????” after a relationship goes el-smasheroo! Thanks, Zorian!

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      1. Valerie –

        Aw, thank you Valerie, I’m glad you like it. Isn’t it so cool how channeling one’s anger via our creativity with Tarot can lead to something that can be so much fun, yet ever so helpful at the same time?

        ~*~*~*~*~*~

        Douglas –

        Thanks Douglas, I’m glad you enjoyed the spread ๐Ÿ˜€

        (Catherine – Awww … you’re making me blush! :”> )

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  3. Hey, this is truly awesome!!! I couldnโ€™t imagine myself to be so forthright about it if I hadnโ€™t seen this post โ€“ but I just got dumped myself. (long distance as well!) And by โ€œjust nowโ€ I mean like 10 hours agoโ€ฆ couldnโ€™t quite believe the synchronicity myself.

    I am exclaiming certainly not because I felt great about it, but the question each card represents are the exact ones I have been thinking (especially the one for Karmic Lesson). They have been the theme for my personal celtic cross reading but I never thought about incorporating all of them together! And yea, why not?

    Havenโ€™t tried it yet but love the inverted heart shape already (great graphics by the way!), will report how it goes after some tries.

    Great spread!

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    1. Hi Paul,

      Synchronicity is an amazing thing – like you, it never ceases to amaze me.

      Zorian’s Karmic Bitch-slap Tarot Spread works so well because it came straight from his heart – his pure feelings shared for us all to connect with. I’ve often said that honesty is best when working with the Tarot, and this shows that ideal from a different angle.

      I do hope you give Zorian’s spread a go – I’d love to hear how you get on and hope that things work out for you.

      Thank you for taking the time to stop and for leaving your comment.

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    2. Paul-

      Thanks Paul, I’m so happy you enjoyed the spread. Aw, I’m so sorry to hear about your relationship ending so abruptly. Long distance relationships can be incredibly hard, but even more so when the other person is just not willing to go out on a limb.

      I would so totally love it if you would share how the spread worked for you, as well as, your reading itself. Feel free to add me on Facebook (I’m a total Facebook Ho!) and send it to me as a message. That way it’s private, and I can add my 2 cents to your reading as well ๐Ÿ˜€

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    1. Hi Robin – thank you for stopping by and commenting, Zorian certainly has a way with words. His warmth and open, generous spirit comes right through his writing – he’s a delight to know and work with ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. Robin –

      Thank you Robin, glad I could make you laugh. I personally feel that Tarot needs to be more ‘fun’. That way we can not only get a good laugh and relax, but also be more open towards receiving their messages, without going all fatalistic and scare ourselves.

      (Catherine – Awww … you’re too kind. Now you’re really making me blush! :”> .. )

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  4. I appreciate your humor and understand your need for healing, but caution against the spirit of this spread. Ego serving spreads are very dangerous. (V) primes the the major key over (X), and as such, considering that your Soul Card is pure karma unaccompanied by an incidence of manifestation, you will unwittingly and repeatedly manifest similar circumstances until you become aware of your causative nature. The bright side is that, once you do, there will be a wizardly quality to how you approach everything occurring beyond your present reality. Conflict will dissipate when you begin to think beyond immediacy.

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    1. Hi Bulal,

      Thank you for your comment. Your concern is greatly appreciated, and if this spread was the only one in any Tarotist’s toolkit, then I would certainly agree with you.

      However, in keeping with the nature of the break-up of a relationship, as you’re no doubt aware, different emotions are experienced at different times in the aftermath. At some point the anger, the exasperation, the simple question of ‘why?’ must be addressed, expressed and allowed to exist in order for their importance to wane so that healing process can subsequently begin.

      To deny these strong feelings is as dangerous as an out of control ego – mystics have long advised that our feelings are allowed the room to exist within ourselves – to deny them is to bury them which will only lead to an undercurrent of resentment and bitterness. Bitterness is particularly unpleasant and can be an unfortunate by-product of unanswered questions, wondering what you did wrong, and in some cases leading a person to think and feel that there is something wrong with them.

      Honesty is always the best policy and being honest with how you feel, even if it’s seemingly ‘unspiritual’ is to be open to healing. To quash these feelings is to live in denial, which I consider far more dangerous than expressing how you truly feel. To keep repeating the same mistakes and experiencing repeated relationship problems is the result of not looking honestly at yourself and why your relationship broke up, or why keep breaking up – the casual effect of denial.

      This Tarot spread is just one way to help with the healing process. As Zorian said in his intro “sometimes you just gotta get it off your chest.” I happen to agree, and I also believe that you have to deal with the immediacy in the here and now, only when you can acknowledge how you feel, can you truly move on – that’s when the magic of healing really begins.

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    2. Bulal –

      Thank you for your feedback Bulal. I appreciate your honesty and your wisdom. And yes, you have made quite a few many valid points, however, have you ever been dumped by someone you loved? Have you ever had your heartbroken so bad that it truly hurts? How did you feel when it happened?

      Usually, one of the many reactions people have to such a situation (along with pain, sorrow, and misery) is anger. It’s humiliating to be dumped, as well as, have your heartbroken. It can literally suck the life out of you for such incidents do feel like a major blow to our stomach.

      However, anger (along with every emotion) is best when it’s expressed. Emotions are like water. Water, when stagnant and suppressed, tends to become all mossy and toxic over time. However, when Water flows like a river, it is at it’s purest and freshest, nourishing the lands it passes through with the most fertile soil to grow the most magnificent plants.

      Therefore, only once we’re able to express how we feel about the break up, can we come to terms with it, as well as, begin our healing journey. Just like it’s bad to cuss and swear, sometimes we just have to shout out those 4-letter words in order to get rid off all the angst and negativity that’s bubbling within.

      Regarding my Soul Card appearing as Karmic Lessons, well, if you’d read my interpretation of the card, you would find that I have already identified the true issue at stake (which was even mentioned in the first card – Justice). It’s an issue that I struggled with for a long time, but have been working on it in the past few years, and more recently have achieved a breakthrough in it.

      Is it an Ego Serving Spread? Well, I don’t know how you understand that term, but if in a spread you ask for insights on both sides of the situation, as well as, focus majority of the cards on healing and guidance, as well as, identify numerous areas that show where you went wrong (such as my ‘desperate neediness for a companion’, to ‘my always pushing Mr.Tool to give the relationship a definition, as well as, losing my identity within a relationship), it’s anything but Ego Serving. An ego serving spread for me would be like..

      1. How pretty do I look today?

      2. How fabulous is my ensemble?

      3. How jealous would Marcy be if I paraded myself in front of her bf…

      (You can probably guess where this leads to…)

      As far as the ‘forced negative view’ in position number 7 (i.e. The Karmic Bitchslap they shall receive?)… Well, this brings me back to the question of whether you’ve ever had your heart broken by someone. Even if you’re the lucky few who never has had to go through, think of a time when someone humiliated or betrayed you so badly that you just collapsed?

      Now usually, some people would go as far as to taking some form of revenge. Be it a verbal show-down, or stealing their identity and maxing out their credit cards (I saw this in a movie and found it funny), or even a literal Bitch-slap. The spread however in it’s own way reminds us that we don’t need to take a revenge of any sort, as the Universe itself shall take care of it for us (Karma – The Universe’s revenge – it’s meant as a joke, don’t take it literally).

      Since I don’t read with reversals, I believe that every card has it’s share of positive, and negative interpretations. No card is 100% goodness and light (The Star can be false hopes, while the Sun can be frivolous ego gratification) nor is any card 100% terror and darkness (The Tower can be a cleansing experience, and The Devil could advise us to take it easy and indulge a lil now and then).

      In so many spreads, there are positions that have a not-so-positive position – Our deepest fears… Where did we go wrong… What is my shadow side.. What dangers lie ahead.. etc etc, where we need to interpret the cards accordingly.

      Therefore, in the Karmic Bitch-slap position, we’re supposed to read the card as the position states.. a Karmic Bitchslap. And it’s not meant to spread malice of any sort. Just our way of discovering what the Universe has in store for someone based on how they hurt us.

      However, as you offered so kindly, I would love to hear your interpretation of the spread. It would be wonderful to hear someone completely unbiased out, as well as, learn something new in the process. If you wish, feel free to add me on Facebook, else (if Catherine permits) you can share it over here. And I’ll gladly give my feedback.

      Thank you ๐Ÿ™‚

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  5. I enjoyed reading this post. It’s funny but well-said.

    I can’t believe India was that close-minded. Putting a law against homosexuality is just too much. Ew. I’m glad I’m not in that place. (Sorry to Indians… Peace!)

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    1. Hi AJ – it’s hard to believe we’re in the 21st century, but alas this is the nature of different cultures.

      Glad you enjoyed Zorian’s Tarot Spread – he brings it to live with a very honest and personal reading, though his nature is exactly like that – warm, genuine and honest ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. AJ –

      Thanks AJ. I’m really happy to hear that you enjoyed the spread (and got a good laugh outta it).

      The Laws regarding homosexuality is a little tricky here in India. You see, before we won our independence in 1947, we were a colony of the British Empire for over 150 years or so. A lot of our various constitutional laws were created using the old Victorian laws as a base (as it is only through the British Empire did we become a united country, before that we were a nation filled with numerous indigenous kingdoms with no uniform law or governing body for the entire country). Now, in terms of the old Victorian Law – Sodomy – (which to them includes oral and anal intercourse – thus overall being gay) is illegal and unnatural, and thus anyone partaking in it was punishable by law. So even though we achieved our independence over 60 years ago, the prude Victorian view on sexuality and morals has been ingrained within us. Which is odd, considering we are the country where the Kama Sutra and all kinky Tantric Sex rites were discovered.

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  6. I vehemently agree Catherine, healing is necessary, but to heal another is to be healed beyond conception. This is the wizardly approach I mentioned above. I submit to you this. If not bitterness, what spirit does this spread empower. If not in resentment, how does bitterness manifest. Notice the forced negative in position seven. Also, while the spread is called a karmic bitch-slap, the majority of its illumination is focused on the reader. The fire of the forge has blinded the creator to it’s key. In seeking the damnation of another we are found by our faults. As you are undoubtedly aware, it is entirely possible to experience pain without looking to another’s discomfort. Likewise, expressing our emotions can be done through art, music, poetry and/or exercise without the redoubling effects of tarot. We can deny these truths, but just as you’ve so eloquently stated, “To keep repeating the same mistakes and experiencing repeated relationship problems is the result of not looking honestly at yourself and why your relationship broke up, or why keep breaking up โ€“ the casual effect of denial.”

    I do love your willingness to go out on a limb and defend your friends, but I assure you it was not necessary. Please remember that I opened with sympathy and support, and know that I only saw a need for healing that was beyond the readers vision and wanted to do what I could to help. I would be more than happy to elaborate on my interpretation of the spread if you wish to attain my perspective. Certainly, you know that I meant no harm and only wish you both the best in your respective futures. Until next time…

    Love and Light,
    Bulal

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    1. Hi Bulal,

      I take on board what you are saying. However, I don’t feel that there is any karmic implication for Zorian, or anyone else who will use this spread. It doesn’t seek retribution, it merely enquires about recourse, which, no doubt you will know, the universe will deal with in it’s own way and not at the behest of an upset individual. Tarot readings themselves can produce fickle results when the question is out of sorts. Asking the question isn’t wrong and will hold no sway with universal or heavenly powers in dealing with individual behaviours – if indeed these are the belief systems of the querent.

      Holding onto angst, and anger is detrimental to anyone’s development and as synchronicity would have it, of course, I was shown a prime example of this very thing in my own household over the weekend. There has been tension brewing among my children and myself, for various reasons that aren’t unique to teenagers, but are certainly exasperated by that very age group. An unpleasant situation developed right before my eyes and before I knew it, I was involved squarely in the thick of it. One of my children was so upset and angry with me, that he sent me a very unpleasant text message telling me exactly what he thought of me. It was a shock, to us both. I took it on the chin and cried my tears away from him. The point is, in the heat of that moment, when his hurt and anger got the better of him, he may have appeared to have lashed out – he was actually expressing exactly how he felt and got it squarely off his chest. He was apologetic for the text and we had a lovely chat afterwards. Needless to say, our situation improved because he felt he could say what he needed to. Amid his hurt, his pain and his anger, he managed to release those feelings. They gave way to us finding a new level to operate and communicate on.

      Had he not expressed himself so totally, he would have held onto how he was feeling, which is what he had been doing already. The resentment and the bitterness had already been brewing – but now it has been released, we both have a wonderful new sense of serenity and a mutual respect and openness that was obviously missing before.

      I know and understand that your intentions are honourable and that you only meant to offer care and support. I just wanted to point out the differences between our position, because on lots of levels, neither of us are wrong. It depends on your viewpoint, your belief systems and your perspective.

      I value you comments always and hope that we may continue to have wonderful exchanges that challenge our gray matter – after all, what is a comments section for if we cannot debate our differences ๐Ÿ™‚

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  7. Catherine, thanks for sharing Zorian’s spread, I’m lucky in that I’ve never found myself in this situation in a relationship, I’ve been with my hubby since I was 17 but will be using it for others should they wish, so long as its ok with Zorian.
    I thought it was brilliant, made me smile even laugh but at the same time very informative and thought provoking, Zorian does indeed have a way with words.

    Love and blessings
    Laura
    xx

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    1. Hi Laura – thank you for taking the time to comment ๐Ÿ™‚

      Zorian has no problem with you using his Tarot Spread – he’s a caring, sharing kind of guy – and yes, he does have a way with words ๐Ÿ™‚

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    2. Laura –

      Aw thank you, I’m so glad my spread and reading made you smile :D. Thank you so much, and please, feel free to use the spread whenever you please. It truly helped me heal from Mr.Tool (and a whole buncha other men), as well as, really helped a lot of my friends as well. And wow, you are one of the lucky ones to have found your soul-mate in the form of your husband and have been with him since 17!… That’s the kind of love most of us only dream of!

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  8. Hi Catherine,

    I have been away and missed my TE nightcaps.

    Thank you Z for this spread – luv the title!

    So often clients jump from the frying pan to the fire and just as fast as theyโ€™ve wiped their tears, theyโ€™re back for another reading asking, “What’s in the cards for me now?”

    What = Who

    I like the fact that this reading helps the querent to focus on the lesson learned for surely if we don’t learn, we just keep getting burned?

    Thank you for this Z and C!

    Peace,
    Michelle

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    1. Hi Michelle – glad you’re back with us! I’ve been away myself for a few days and now trying to catch up too.

      Zorian’s Karmic Bitch-slap Tarot Spread is great isn’t it?! Great for clearing out that pent up emotion; great for getting it off your chest and as you quite rightly said, great for finding out what lesson you need to learn to help you with future relationships.

      I love this spread – I’m glad you do too!

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  9. I just LOVED this spread! Such a great spread that gets right to the point ! These are the questions our querents are really asking when they are ready to accept that the relationship is just over but they need to move forward. I like how the reading asks clear questions that will give us direct answers and gives the opportunity for guidance and healing. What a great spread! Thanks for sharing it Zorian and Catherine!

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    1. Hi Chanel – thanks for your comment! Zorian certainly created a wonderful spread – says it like it is! Perfect ๐Ÿ™‚

      Glad you enjoyed it, thanks for stopping by ๐Ÿ™‚

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  10. Hey there

    Your Spread is fabulous, I love it!! ๐Ÿ˜›

    Yikes, no replies since a couple years, lol.
    Your story sounds just like it could have been written by me about my ex! I’m a woman. Straight. Blonde, pretty, elegant, but a tomboy inside. The ex wanted to be a hero, and has the charm of a guru just like yours, but is really a wimp inside. The kind to pick the moment when you seriously need support to make his exit.

    I’ll try your spread today and share the results, lol.
    Have a good day! ๐Ÿ˜€

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    1. Hey, thanks for stopping by and leaving a comment – it has been quite a while since anyone did on this post, lol.

      I think one of the reasons this spread does so well is that it resonates with so many – and who doesn’t want to know if there’s a little karmic bitch-slap out there for you-know-who? ;~/

      I look forward to hearing how you get on with the spread…

      Welcome to Tarot Elements ๐Ÿ™‚

      Catherine

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  11. hi, just want to let u know dat this spread sounds awesome. I cant wait to try it out and offer this spreads for my friends ๐Ÿ™‚ thanks so much! ๐Ÿ™‚ โค

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